Erwin McManusNo Regrets

Save Nothing for the Next Life

Lesson 1: In this GrowthTrack, Erwin teaches you how to live with no regrets by learning to rethink your failures and setbacks.

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We understand that attending the Summit can be like drinking from a fire hose! So, as we focus on the topic of increasing your vision, take a few minutes to review Erwin McManus’ session from The Global Leadership Summit.

 

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GLS18 Session Notes:

Erwin McManus – No Regrets

 

Erwin McManus teaching at the GLS 2018 on living with No Regrets

I am convinced that the greatest battles we ever fight are the ones within us. And if we can figure out how to conquer the darkness inside, we can move forward into the light.

We are all desperately afraid that there is greatness inside of us that will never be actualized.

  • Story of Bill McManus: When Erwin’s son Aaron was 15-years-old, he wanted to meet his step-grandfather. Bill McManus said, “I don’t know what your Dad has told you, but he was just average. His brother was exceptional. But your dad was just average.” Those words echoed in my soul.
    • I was never average. I was always below average.

You’ve been created by God who gives you intention and purpose and significance. I have known too many people with so much potential. But their lives never lived up to what everyone else saw in them.

We live our lives holding on to the status quo, and we are terrified of breaking away from the pack to become uniquely the person who God created us to be.

 

Erwin McManus teaching at the GLS 2018 on living with No Regrets

We need to ask the question, “How can I become the person I was created to be?”

  • Bible story of King Jehoash and Elisha (2 Kings). King Jehoash is about to be destroyed by an army and he knows the only way to win is if God is on his side. Elisha tells him to take arrows and to strike them on the ground and he will have victory. So the king strikes the ground three times and stops. Elisha asks him why he stopped. By stopping, he would only have partial victory.

And I wonder how many of us have confused those moments in our life—we thought we failed, but what we really did was quit. We’ve settled for much less than the life we are supposed to live.

  • Story of Erwin’s journey with cancer: A medical test revealed that Erwin had a very aggressive and advanced form of cancer. He thought The Last Arrow might be his final book. He opened up the manuscript and read a sentence he had written a year earlier: “I need to tell you before you hear it from somebody else that I’m dying…but so are you.”

Most of us live our lives as if we are going to live forever. We are all dying. We don’t get days back. We need to treat each day like they are sacred.

Some of you are living your life in fear. Freedom is on the other side of your fear! Too many people say they have faith, but they are paralyzed by fear.

When you put death behind you, life is the only thing in front of you.

If you don’t deal with the paralyzing power of fear in your life, you will never live the life you were created to live.

Erwin McManus teaching at the GLS 2018 on living with No Regrets

Leadership is not about living in the confines of your fear but it’s about facing them and running through them. Greatness is on the other side of our pain.

  • Story of walking through pain. Six hours after the surgery, I decided I wanted to get up and walk. Erwin reasoned, “If I can stand this pain, I can face whatever pain in ahead of me.” We need to learn how to walk in our pain. Three months after surgery, I played two hours of basketball at the gym.
  • An atheist friend said my cancer might be the one thing that drives him to prayer. I realized my recovery wasn’t for me. I’m not afraid of death because I’m already alive.

I live for this purpose: I want people who are so afraid to get up and live life again. I want them to know that their pain was not the limit of their life. You need to go through pain to step into greatness.

Jesus did not come to give us a way out of pain. He came to give us a way through pain. Trust that God has something extraordinary on the other side of your wounds and pain.

People want to define us by our worst moments. But God does not define you by your worst moments. He sees in you a greatness that you cannot see in yourself.

Failure is not the end of the story.

Erwin McManus teaching at the GLS 2018 on living with No Regrets

  • Story of Erwin’s company. When you are living in a story bigger than your own, failure just enhances the story. Erwin’s business partner embezzled millions of dollars and he lost everything. In the middle of the collapse, his son Aaron came back to Jesus. He challenged Erwin to live 100%.

I’m standing in front of you as a person who knows failure after failure after failure. Faith doesn’t make life easier. Faith makes you stronger.

Forty years ago, I had a life-changing encounter with the creator of the universe. I never thought it was possible. But I came to know that God had stepped into human history in the person of Jesus. I didn’t care about heaven. I didn’t care about hell. I was terrified that I would live and die and never do anything meaningful. I was terrified that my dad was right—that I was nothing but average.

A life is waiting for you. Your faith is the fuel you need to step into your pain and into your fear and into your failures.

Take the arrow and strike and strike and strike and strike and strike.

And when you take your last breath, let your quiver be empty. And let your last arrow be in your hand.

 

*Disclaimer: GLS18 Session Notes are only available in the United States*

Book Excerpt from The Last Arrow:

“Maybe even as you are reading this, you know deep within you that you gave up on your best life a long time ago. You gave up believing that God would do great things in your life. Whatever it may be that you once believed in so deeply, somehow the hardships and heaviness of life stole it from your soul. You thought God gave up on you, but deep down inside, you know it was you who gave up on God.

Is it possible that failure is simply the result of giving up too soon? Is it possible that our most tragic failure is giving up on ourselves? This is the paradox of our spiritual journeys. When we put our complete trust in God, it places upon us greater responsibility, not less. Even when the victory is the Lord’s, we are still called to be the warriors in the midst of the battle.

Maybe those of us most aware of our imperfections and flaws are best suited for this journey. After all, what do we have to lose? We were never supposed to amount to anything. If failure is our inevitable future, then let’s fail boldly and fail forward. But whatever happens, let’s not hide behind the excuse that we didn’t give it everything we had. Perhaps the life we long for is beyond the point of no return?

Is it possible that God is waiting to do more than we could ever ask or imagine and is looking throughout the earth for someone who refuses to settle? Maybe it’s time for you to pick up your bow, grab your arrows, and begin to strike. After all, what’s the point of saving your arrows? You can’t take them with you after you have taken your last breath. You have one life to use everything you have been entrusted with, so you might as well save nothing for the next life.”

Deepen

Now that you have reviewed the session, let’s dig a little deeper into it.

1. Thinking back on the talk, what were your top insights? Feel free to write down any phrases, concepts or insights that had the most impact on you.

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2. Now, read the excerpt from Erwin’s book, The Last Arrow. What phrases or sentences are you drawn to? What is speaking to your heart, to your soul? And if it helps, write them in your journal.

3. Stop. Take a moment to reflect on those phrases, words or sentences that pulled at you. Ask the Holy Spirit what He’s saying to you, and ask Him to give you the ears to hear Him.

  • Read those words again. What’s He whispering to you?
  • Take a few quiet moments to capture those thoughts, those words. What does that mean to you? Where might He be leading you?

Do

1. Take the “No Regrets” Assessment:

Take the assessment below to get a baseline of your awareness of difficult conversations at the start of this journey. You will take this assessment again at the end of this GrowthTrack to track your growth over the next four weeks.

2. Review your responses to the assessment:

  • Note the questions where you rated yourself highly. These are potential strengths to lean into.
  • Note the questions where you rated yourself lower. These are potential areas to improve.
  • As you go through the GrowthTrack sessions, keep in mind how you can either better leverage those strengths or identify ways to improve.

3. Calendar it! Block time in your calendar to go this course – 10 minutes per week over the next 4 weeks.

Take the Assessment

Instructions:

Take the following assessment to rate how true these statements are of you. Use the scale below to score yourself. Use your journal to track your scores.

Scale:

1 – Never True of Me
2 – Rarely True of Me
3 – Sometimes True of Me
4 – Mostly True of Me
5 – Always True of Me

Assessment Questions:

1. I long for more in my life.

2. I have a sense that I may have settled for less or given up too soon.

3. It’s difficult for me to believe that God is waiting to do more than I could ever ask or imagine.

4. My past wounds, pain, regret still have a hold on me.

5. I can’t seem to find people who are of one heart and mind with me.

6. I don’t have many deep relationships.

7. I actively search for people who can continue to enlarge me/my vision.

8. I do not know how to pursue a life with no regrets.

9. I believe I am holding onto my past.

10. It haunts me that I have not become the person I always wanted to be.

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